About this Story....

Welcome to "Caterpillars to Butterflies." This is a narrative of our faith journey and the incredible transformation God performed in our lives from 2007 to 2009. It is a story of God's unwavering faithfulness and what happens when we choose to trust Him, regardless of how circumstances appear. Through hardships, struggles, loss, and confusion, God revealed Himself to my husband, Tom, and me. We learned invaluable lessons about letting go of our own logic and understanding (Proverbs 3:5-6), surrendering our personal goals, and embracing His eternal purpose for our lives. Ultimately, this journey revealed His redeeming and transforming love for us. We hope our story inspires you to nurture your own faith and deepen your relationship with Him, trusting in His faithfulness no matter what challenges you face. May our journey from caterpillars to butterflies encourage you on your path.

Saturday, December 17, 2022

Intro to Blog

The Journey to Share Our Story

Over the years, many people have told us, “You need to write a book and share this story with the world!” But God consistently spoke to our hearts, saying, “No, you can share it verbally or through your journal, but that’s all.” We heard this message repeatedly, so we never attempted to write a book or blog—until now.

In early 2022, we had another divine appointment at the Inn (with guests we truly connected with). The woman said it again: “You really need to write a book and share this story for others to hear!” This time, God surprised me by saying, “Yes. It is time!” I was stunned and thought, “What?!” It was so unexpected, but His direction was clear. I realized it would be my next assignment after completing my current Journey to Know God blog post.

The next day, after finishing the blog, I spoke with my daughter-in-law, Candis. She had asked me to let her know when I completed my blog, so I told her I’d send her the link. Out of nowhere, she said, “You really need to share your story for people to read!” I asked her, “What—my blog or the ‘crazy journey’ from 2007-2009?” She replied, “Yeah, your crazy journey!”

Wow. That was the second time in two days that God told me to do this!

Just to make sure I truly “got it,” He gave me another confirmation. As I began going through my journal to prepare it for sharing, I came across a word from the Lord that had been given to a friend of Tom’s for him:


Son, encourage Tom to write down his experiences and formulate a book of testimony. He is to share My love, forgiveness, compassion, new beginnings, and hope with everyone I place in his path. He is to walk the walk of faith—both he and his wife. They are Mine, and I am theirs...”


Okay. Wow! This was the third time I received this message. It was clear: I was supposed to make this story available for others to read!


Some Background Information

Here are a few tidbits to help you understand our story as you read:

  1. Relying Fully on God:
    One of the many lessons God impressed upon our hearts during this time was to rely completely on Him for all things. He made it clear that we were not to tell anyone what we needed, nor ask for anything or charge for anything—whether in our life coaching ministry or any other work He led us to do. This is His testimony, not ours.

  2. Life at the Time:
    At the time, I was working full-time, attending Hope Ministry Institute (HMI, a school at church to become a licensed pastor), and ministering to women through one-on-one sessions and weekly meetings. I was exhausted—stretched and stressed on so many levels.

    HMI required reading the Hope Journal, a set of scriptures to help you read through the Bible in a year. When I reference the Hope Journal, that’s what I’m referring to.

  3. Family and Friends:
    For privacy, I use initials for family and friends. It might feel a little strange at first, but you’ll get used to it.

    Tom and I also prioritized spending time with our grandkids. We set aside one day a week (usually Tuesday or Wednesday) to spend the morning with the youngest, who wasn’t in school, and then swapped for one of the older kids after school, hanging out with them until bedtime. Sundays were “family day,” with dinner, games, or cards together.

  4. My Eye Condition:
    In 2000, I was diagnosed with glaucoma in my right eye. Despite many tests, doctors haven’t determined the cause. Over the years, I’ve had four surgeries and manage the condition with eye drops to keep the pressure down and preserve my vision. Occasionally, you’ll see journal entries about my eye.


A Prayer for You

As you read this story, may God reveal His love and care for you in powerful, transformative ways. This is His story—a testimony of His love, care, and faithfulness to His children.

Let’s begin!

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